Saturday, March 31, 2012

Lazy Saturday


Today had been a pretty good day.  It started off by a pretty good night sleep for everyone at the Steenblik household.  Josh only woke up once and I put him back in bed and he stayed there for the rest of the night - a small miracle in it's self.  Then Megan only woke up twice to eat last night.  I really hope that tonight is as good as last night was.
Tony took Megan in to get weighed again today.  She was up, so now we just have to keep feeding her every two hours and giving her formula with the nursing.  I was hoping that my milk would be a little better today, but it hasn't really.  I decided to start taking Fenugreek - which is an herb to help with milk supply.  I figure I will give that a try and see if it helps at all.  With Tyler and Josh I took a prescription, Reglan, and it worked a little bit so I am going to see if this works better.  I got a 100 count bottle and you are suppose to take 2-3 pills 3 times a day, so I will give it to the end of the bottle and see if it helps.
The boys are still doing good with Megan.  Tyler asked to hold her more today.  It is super cute to see how much he loves her.  Josh has been a big helper with diapers and helping Megan with her binkey and burp cloths.  It is sweet that he wants to help so much.  Josh's cold seems a little better today.  I only gave him one breathing treatment right before bed.  Tyler has a running nose and I am really hoping and praying that he doesn't start coughing.
Koda is doing really good with Megan as well.  He doesn't lick her or get in her face, he just smells her and then walks away.  It is like he already knows that she's part of our family and he feels like he needs to protect her.  A neighbor came over and was holding Megan and Koda watched her very closely and was acting really funny.  He is such a good dog and it is nice to see that he loves his family.

Friday, March 30, 2012

Happy Family

Tony took Megan into the doctor again today to check her jaundice.  Her numbers were down a little bit, but her weight was even lower then yesterday.  So now I have to feed her every two hours, start by nursing and then supplement with formula.  I have been trying to pump every two or three hours, especially if I don't nurse her.  If I think that she'll just fall to sleep, then Tony gives her a bottle and I pump.  I would love to say that I am producing well, but it is pretty pathetic.  We have to take her back to the doctor tomorrow just to get her weight checked.  Lets hope that she is up at least a little.  
Josh has a pretty bad cold, so that is really sucking.  It is so bad that it is affecting his breathing so
bad that we've had to do breathing treatments again.  Also the poor thing starts coughing and just coughs so hard that he throws up - it is super sad.  Last night I slept with Josh in my bed and Tony and Megan slept in the front room to avoid getting coughed on all night.  Megan did pretty good, she only woke up a couple times.  Josh on the other hand had a hard night.  Just was having such a hard time breathing.  I just hope that Josh feels better soon and that the rest of us, especially Megan, don't get his cold.

Thursday, March 29, 2012

Family of Five Fun

We have now been home for a whole day now.  After we left the hospital Tony, Megan, and I went home and got situated.  We got everything unpacked and got all the baby stuff out that we had been waiting to get out until Megan was born.  Tony went and got a couple things at the store and picked up my prescriptions and then he went and got the boys (and the dog) from his parent's house.  The boys came home and they both just loved on Megan.  I was very happy to see Josh take a liking to Megan and to me again.  I guess seeing me in the hospital bed kind of freaked Josh out.
Last night wasn't too bad.  Tony and I went to bed around nine with Megan and then she woke at about 10:30 pm ready to eat again.  We decided to have Tony give her a bottle and then they came back to bed.  Josh, of course, came in with us around midnight.  I let him stay with us because I worry about him feeling left out or not having enough of our attention.  Turned out that when Tony got out our Pack-and-Play we had missing polls.  So we couldn't set up the bassinet part of the Pack-and-Play, so Megan just slept in-between Tony and I.  It wasn't a problem until Josh came in, but we dealt with it.
Megan woke up again about 1:30 am and I fed her until 2:30.  She was awake and nursing, so I didn't mind.  So then I wrapped her up and put her back to bed with us.  She was pretty restless so Tony took her to lay with him on the couch.  Turned out she slept until 7:30 am.  I kept waking up thinking Tony was going to come in any minute and have me feed Megan.  So I was super restless, but Tony and Megan got some good sleep.
My milk came in this morning, so that was good.  But it made it hard to nurse her because it was hard for her to latch.  Tony got out all my pumping gear and I worked on making it easier for her to nurse.  She has been pretty sleepy all day.  Every time I would nurse, she would fall asleep pretty fast.
Megan had her appointment with Dr. Eyre this afternoon.  The doctor said she looks great, but her jaundice numbers were even higher so I now have to give her formula after I nurse her so she can gain some more weight and help her poo and pee more to get rid of the jaundice.  I had the doctor check the boys ears to make sure their ear infections were gone.  Tyler's ears looked good but Josh had still had an infection not only in one ear but now in both ears.   So he's on an antibiotic again, if this doesn't clear it up then we will have to look into an ear doctor for Josh to get tubes.  Might be a good idea either way.
My friend is lending us her polls from her Pack-and-Play so Megan doesn't have to sleep with us again tonight.  We did order some new ones that should be here within a week.  Lets hope she sleeps well tonight...and us too!

Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Megan Margie Steenblik

Our baby girl is here!  She was born on Monday at 1:14 pm weighing in 7 lbs and 1 ounce and 18 1/2 inches longs.  On Sunday we went to to the Steenblik's for dinner and after dinner we went for a nice long walk on the park way.  My lower back started hurting while we were walking, but I didn't know if that was just because I was walking a lot, or if it had to do with progressing my labor.
Well about 2:00 am my lower back really started hurting.  I kept going to the bathroom to see if that would help the pain, but it didn't seem to help.  At 2:45 am I start checking the clock to see if these pains were contractions and if they were coming at a consistent time.  Sure enough ten minutes later the pain came back strong.  It lasted a minute or so and then went away.  Then ten minutes later the pain was back...then eight minutes...then seven minutes.
So I decided to get up to see if that would change the timing or the contractions at all.  I got the boys clothes together and the contractions kept coming.  I decided to call my midwife's phone service and start getting ready to go to the hospital.  Tony came out with Josh (who we had woken up while we were talking about my contractions) and we started getting stuff in the car and ready to go.  My midwife called back and said to go ahead and go to the hospital.  My contractions were coming now about every five minutes and they were really painful.  Mostly lower back pains - oh my they hurt so bad.  I couldn't even breath through them they were so bad.  Tony loaded the car and woke up Tyler.  I was half surprised that Tyler was able to sleep through all the commotion, but I am glad he did.  We (even Koda) all got in the car to go to Tony's parents to drop off the boys.
We got to the Steenblik's at about 5:30 am and then headed to Riverton to get to the hospital.  The contractions were still super strong and coming about four-five minutes apart.  I started feeling pretty sick in the car and threw up.  Luckily I still had a throw up bag in the car.  I think that I was making Tony gag a little bit while I was throwing up - poor guy.
We checked into the hospital at about 6:00 am.  We had to first go into a prep room to see if I would be admitted.  They checked me and the baby and then decided to admit me.  They then moved me to the labor and delivery room.  My contractions were still coming regularly and strong.  I was sure that those were the hardest contractions that I have had with any of my babies.  A lot of pain in the back and front.  They needed to get the IV in and the poor nurse had a really hard time.  She tried three times and then called the anesthesiologist to come and put in my IV.  After he got that in then the blood lady came in to take some of my blood.  Three more sticks later she got the blood that she needed and then it was epidural time.  I have to say that this epidural was the weirdest thing I have ever had done to me.  It started out "normal" but then he said that I might feel something "weird" so not to over react - then all of the sudden my hip started to spasm and then my whole leg kind of jolted all by itself.  It was so crazy it made me start to cry.  It wasn't that it hurt, but it was just so weird...I can't even explain it.  But it worked really well and I had no problems with pain after that.
About 30 minutes after I got the epidural, I all of the sudden got really faint.  My blood presser got really low really fast and it made me sick.  I told Tony that I didn't feel good and thought I was going to pass out.  He got the nurse who called the anesthesiologist back and he came and gave me some medicine in my IV to make that feeling go away.  It got worse for a couple minutes before it got better.  But the medicine worked and I started feeling better.  It was pretty weird.
I just hung out for a couple hours before Julie Jones, CNM came to check on me.  She came about 10:30 am and she checked me.  By that time I was at a nine and she broke my water.  Unfortunately their was maconium in my water - meaning the baby had pooped. So that meant that a couple more people would come in when I had the baby to make sure that everything was okay with her.  She didn't seem too concerned, so I was happy about that.  She had the nurse increase the potocin so that my contractions would be stronger and help move the baby down.  Julie had me hang out for another hour or so before she checked me again.  By that time I was at a ten and ready to go.  She let the contractions continue to do their job and let them move the baby down.  About 1:00 pm it was go time.  She had me push once and then told me to stop because the baby was right there.  Julie still needed to get on her gown to be prepared to deliver the baby.  So once she was dressed I pushed one more time and the baby's head came out, and then one more good push and the rest of her was delivered.  It was amazing.  They brought in a mirror so I could see the whole thing and it was super neat. 
Megan came out screaming and showed us all her strong voice.  It turned out to be good that she kept on screaming to make sure that her lungs were nice and clear.  The person from the nursery took good care of Megan and made sure that everything looked good with her and she showed no negative side affects from the poop in the water.  We were very happy about that.
I had a first degree rip and had to get sewn up for a while.  I watched them work on Megan and Tony took lots of pictures.  After I was all sewn up and cleaned up we still had to wait in the labor and delivery room because Megan's temp was low.  So they had to put her under the warmer (which luckily is right in the room).  She was there for what seemed like a long time before we were able to go to the long stay rooms.  So they bundled her up and we headed to our recovery room.  Once there I was able to try and nurse Megan.  She was actually pretty impressive.  She latched pretty well.  After a couple hours Tony's dad came from work to visit and Tony's mom brought the boys to come and meet their little sister.
Tyler and Josh reacted a little differently then I thought that they would.  Josh feel asleep in the car so he was pretty out of it and only wanted to be held by Tony.  He didn't want anything to do with me or Megan.  He wouldn't come and sit with me or even talk to me.  Tyler came and looked at Megan and then asked me if I could bend over now.  While pregnant I would have Tyler pick things up for me because I couldn't bend and I told him after I had the baby that I would be able to bend again.  So it was funny that that was the first question that Tyler had for me.  After a little while Tyler decided he wanted to hold Megan and he was super cute about it.  Then quite a while later Josh was ready to take his turn holding Megan.  He didn't last long, but at least he cared enough to try.  Then they all went home and we had some dinner.  After that Sherri came to visit and brought a lovely Lily flower.  It was a nice visit and I was glad she came.
That night wasn't too bad.  The nurses still had to come check on me every four hours and then they brought in the baby when she was hungry and then the blood person came at like 4:00 am to take my blood - why so early - who knows.  Megan had a hard time nursing through out the night which was tough because she actually did pretty good during the day.  She pooped lots that first day, but then only pooped once the next day.  I was hoping that the pooping would continue and the good eating to avoid Megan getting jaundice like both boys did - but she still got it.
We enjoyed our time at the hospital for the next couple days.  We had a couple visitors and tried to get some rest while we had nurses to help.  All the checks on me and Megan were good.  Tony and I attended a breast feeding class and had the lactation lady come visit us.  It was nothing I hadn't already heard, but I figured a good review couldn't hurt.  We did end up giving her a couple ml of formula a couple times to try and help with the jaundice. When they took her blood her numbers were high so we do have to take Megan into the doctor tomorrow to check to see if she has better numbers.  Lets hope that her numbers aren't so bad that she has to be under the lights.  I guess we'll find out.  Super glad to take this baby home and be an awesome family of five - go Team Steenblik!!!

Thursday, March 22, 2012

Busy Saturday


Last Saturday my neighbor, Gwen, threw me a baby shower.  It was an open house at her house, lucky for me she lives kiddy corner from me.  A lot of different ward members came.  I was surprised how many people came.  They were all so very generous and we are so blessed to have so many good friends in our neighborhood and ward.  After a couple of hours, the people stopped coming and I took the goods home and showed them to Tony and the boys.  It totally filled the whole crib with all the goods.

A little while later family started coming over for Tyler's family birthday party.  We had a full house of our family and we loved it.  Someday we will have a bigger house and it wont be so squishy, but besides that it went well.  Tony got out the grill and cooked hamburgers and hotdogs and then after opening presents we had some cake and ice cream.  I couldn't believe it, during dinner I ran out of ketchup.  I ended up calling my neighbor, and "borrowed" some from them.  It was a funny thing to ask for, but thankfully she had some.  The boys had a great time playing with all their cousins and Tyler got some fun gifts.  Luckily the weather was pretty good, so the kids played mostly outside and down stairs.  Tony and I got Tyler an explorer kit and Tyler has played with it everyday since.  It is good to see him use the things we buy him.  It was a very long day, but a good one.  I thought for a while I might not make it to any of the activities because my contractions we coming so fast and strong for a while, but they calmed down and the baby is still cooking.

Friday, March 16, 2012

Busy Week

Josh and Koda before church
This week has been a pretty busy one.  On Monday the boys had their well child visits.  Tyler woke up that morning saying his ear hurt, so it was pretty good timing since we were already going to the doctor.  It was the first time he said he didn't want to go to preschool because he wasn't feeling well.  So we stayed home in the morning and then went to the appointment in the afternoon.
The appointment went well.  Tony had the day off, so he was able to come with me.  Both boys look really good overall.  Turns out that Tyler and Josh both had ear infections.  So we're not sure if they just didn't get all the way better from the last ear infections, or if these are new ones.
Tyler was a little on the short side, but looking good.
Weight: 40 lbs (44%) 
Height: 41.6 inches tall (23%).  

Josh is more on the tall side.
Weight: 30 1/2 lbs (60%)
Height: 37 inches tall (72%)
Head: 48 1/4 cm (26%)  
It'll be interesting to see if they keep on this same path.  She was a little concerned that Josh wasn't talking better, so she said we can wait and see how he is at three or we could start him on some free speech training.  It's kind of funny because it seems like since that appointment Josh is already speaking better and using more words.  I think that we will wait for a couple months and then decide.
On Tuesday was Tyler's actual birthday.  I can't believe he is already five.  We kept the day pretty low key but did take him to dinner at Wingers.  They sent him a free kids meal coupon and we all had a good time eating dinner there.  
Kimball Sutherland
Yesterday Julie got induced and had her baby.  Kimball Boyd Sutherland came at 2:15 pm weighing a hefty 9.4 lbs and 20 inches.  They are all doing well.  I had my midwife appointment for my 38th week appointment.  I was at a 3 plus and 70% effaced.  So I am progressing nice and steadily.  I thought with all the contractions I have been having that I would have been more dilated, but I'll take whatever I can take.  My midwife said everything is looking good.  I have only one more appointment for next Friday.  If I haven't had her by the 30th, then I will get induced that day.
Later that night I went to dinner with some friends from my ward.  Well, really only one of the ladies still lives in the ward, the other two moved a couple months ago.  We went to The Cheesecake Factory.  It was lots of fun chatting with friends and eating yummy food.  It was even better because my friend, Natalie, paid for my meal as my birthday dinner - she is so good to me.
Today after I dropped off Tyler at preschool, Josh and I went to my parents.  I left Josh with my mom and then went and visited Julie at the hospital.  Little Kimball is super cute.  His hair was so soft.  He just slept while I was there, I just love that.  I can't believe that will be me in a couple of weeks (or less).  After I picked up Tyler and we all hung out at my parents for a couple of hours.  Josh took a nap and then Sherri and Rich stopped by and we all got to catch up.  I wished that I could have held Kimball for longer, but she'll be coming home tomorrow so I'll get plenty of chances to snuggle him.
Tomorrow we are having Tyler's family BBQ birthday party.  Before that my ward is doing a shower for me, so that should be fun.  I didn't really want a shower because I feel a little silly having one when it's not my first baby, but my neighbor was super excited to do it and had it all planned...so I'm having a shower.  We'll see if anyone shows up.  Should be a busy, but fun day tomorrow.

Saturday, March 10, 2012

Tyler's First Friend Birthday Party

Tyler decorating his mask
Tyler turns five years old on Tuesday.  He has been asking for a friend birthday party since Josh's birthday six months ago.  So Tony and I have been planning on throwing one for him, even though I am so big and pregnant.  We were planning to do it very low key.  We invited three girls and three boys, so plus Tyler and Josh that made eight kids.  It was a good number.
Josh saying "cheese" while decorating his mask
All the kids eating their goods as Super Heros
Tyler really wanted a Super Hero theme, so I made masks for the kids to decorate and then kind of last minute my mom and I made all the kids capes.  My mom had some super fun shiny red and blue fabric that she said that she would let me have and showed me how to make capes out of it.  It turned out to be super easy and I am really glad that we were able to do that.  The kids all loved the capes and it really made it a "super" party.  The weather was really nice today, about 60 degrees, so the kids mainly played outside.  Some of the kids played a matching game, but mainly they just played all over.  Then we opened presents (I think that was Tyler's favorite part) and then had cupcakes and ice cream.  Some kids left after about an hour and a half and others stayed for two hours.  It was a good amount of time and I think all the kids had a good time.  Tyler said that he wanted his friends to leave so that he could play with his new toys, we'll have to work on that attitude for sure.  I am glad that we didn't try to plan a whole bunch of different games and crazy things, because I was pretty tired just from decorating and cleaning to get ready for the party.
Tyler and his big 5 cupcake
Tyler opening his presents from his friends
I told Tyler that he wouldn't get a friend party every year and he seemed okay with that.  I am thinking maybe every like five years - I guess we'll see what happens in the future.  A couple of the mom's stayed and we got to chat while the kids played, so that was fun for me.  Tony did a good job playing with the kids and making sure Koda was a good puppy.  It was fun, but I am glad it is over.  Now we have our family party next Saturday.  We are going to BBQ, so I hope that it's nice weather again.  It is always fun when family gets together, I just hope that I don't allow my self to get too stressed about the whole thing.  I am sure they won't care if my house isn't perfectly clean or I'm a lazy hostess that night...that's what so good about family.  They love you no matter what.

37 Week check-up

I had my 37 week check up with my midwife on Friday.  It went well.  The baby sounds good, she is measuring about 37, so right on.  My midwife did check me and I am dilated to a three and about 50% effaced.  So I was glad about that.  All these contractions are doing something.  I will probably be induced by my due date if I haven't had her already.  Tony and I hope that she comes on her own within the week that I am due, I guess we'll see what she decides.  I have my next appointment on Thursday.  We'll see if anything else has progressed by then.  Wahoo.

Sunday, March 4, 2012

Deca Fun with Family

On Thursday I dropped the kids and dog off at Tony's parents and then headed up to Layton to help chaperon Julie's students and then be a judge for the Deca competition the next day.  Julie had a doctor's appointment on Thursday afternoon, so I just went to her doctor's office and then we both left from there.  It was much more fun to drive up chatting with Julie then just all by my self.  Once we got to the hotel we met up with the other advisers from her school and got into our room.  We dropped off our stuff and then went down stairs to help with the quiz bowl event.  Julie and I both read questions, scored, and timed the event.  It was pretty fun because we are so awesome.
After the quiz bowl it was time for dinner, so we walked across the street to Roosters.  Their food is really yummy and we had a good time ordering whatever we wanted and chatting with the students and other advisers.  After dinner we went back to our room and got comfortable and just chatted until 11:00 pm when she had to go do room checks.  Then we both fell to sleep.  I did not sleep well at all that night, but these days I don't sleep very well even at home.
We got up and got dressed the next day and headed down for some breakfast.  After we ate then Julie went to cover her event and I went to do my judging thing.  I got a pretty easy event and was glad that I didn't have too many students to get through.  Once I was done I went and found Julie and helped her with her events.  By that time my dad had arrived to announce the semi-finals and final awards.  We got some lunch and then a little later my brother Kevin had gotten there to judge the final events.  Things were running behind so we all got to watch my dad on stage try to entertain the students while we all waited for the results.  They ended up having too many judges so Kevin, Julie, and I decided to go out for some dessert after the semi-finals.  We went to Red Robin and Julie and I had the best most yummiest dessert - mud pie thing.  I am still thinking about how good it was.  I can't wait to go back and have another one of those - YUM.
Then I decided I should probably start heading home.  Tony picked up the boys and the dog and met me at home.  It was nice to get away for a little bit, but nice to be home.  Our neighbors, the Kunzler's, brought us over some yummy bread and some books for the boys.  They are awesome people and friends.  We really are such blessed people.