Allie started talking about having a birthday party with friends a few weeks before her birthday. She was very specific on what she wanted to get for her birthday...a tent and real nail polish. She is so funny.
So I decided that I would do a friend birthday for each of my kids this upcoming year. So I invited all the kids from her primary class to come over for a party.
Only three kids were able to come but we had fun with those kids. One of the boys, Knox, didn't want to do any of the activities that I had planned. He just wanted to play with the toys downstairs. That was fine with me as long as long as he was happy.
I bought some crowns for all the kids and then I had them decorate them with stickers and markers. The girls seemed to like it (and Josh).
After they played for a little while with their crowns we went on to our next activity. I gave the kids animal crackers and vanilla frosting and then they made an animal farm with a bunch of different candies in the frosting.
The kids all loved doing that (even my big boys), except Knox again. He watched. I am pretty sure Megan just put as much candy on her plate that she could. She loves her treats. It was fun to see the creativity in each of the kids and how they chose to make their farms.
After all the kids were done with their farms they decided that it was time to open presents. Allie loved this part. She got some super fun things from her friends and she loved them. After all was opened it was then time to eat small cupcakes and ice cream.
Allie asked for everything to be small. So we did small cupcakes and then each of the candies were miniature like M&M's, Swedish Fish, Star Burst, etc. I thought it was fun and cute.
The parents then came and picked up their kids and the party was over. Allie had a great time and was happy with her friend birthday.
She was sad that she didn't get a tent or real nail polish but I do know that Margie got her a play tent and I will make sure that she gets real nail polish by her actual birthday.
I wasn't sure what to do at first with a bunch of four year olds, but I think it turned out pretty good. I need to not let myself get over stressed about these things. I never know what to do so then I just don't do anything. I don't want to be like that all the time. I want my kids to remember having fun parties. Sometimes I let my anxieties or concerns stop me from doing things and I am trying to be better and do more. I think I am doing better.